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Which One Do You Prefer?????
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Rosie B.
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Me too Deb.

I've seen cases here in regards to spousal stalking after a woman divorces a man in which the guy nearly kills a wife before the cops do something. I'm thinking of the Filiaggi murder case. The wife documented the phone calls and took videos of the damage he did to her home. He killed her right in front of one or both of their children when she fled to another neighbors house and hid. I think that's what happened but it's been a while. I could probably do a Google search of this case. It happened in nearby Elyria.

The police are supposed to be better at monitoring this type of crime but I think they've still got a long way to go to protect the victim.

Phone harassment isn't punished as severely as it should be. I think you've really got to complain to the police every single time it happens and keep after them to do something.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 11:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree. It's mental cruelty and it's a wonder people don't get physically sick from it. I know I would. God, that case you've desribed--how horrible Rose!!
I can't believe this guy is getting away with it. I don't know how far they want things to go before they take more action--that is the part that scares me.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 12:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok...Update on the jerk..

First off...Thanks for downsizing the photo..I meant to but didn't get around to it with everything happening.

The first thing I did was call the number that showed up on my display. It was a cell phone and I got a recording..I left a message to the "adult female" who recorded the message and asked her to call me back. She never did (no surprise there). Lou yelled.

Next, we called the cops and they said they would call right back...Lou yelled some more.

Then we got a knock on the door...delivery for $45 worth of chicken. I called the chicken place and told them never to deliver to me without calling to confirm delivery first. Found out that another same exact order was placed for another address...possible clue ...Lou went out to the neighbours and they all chipped in to pay the delivery man who is our reg delivery guy and is very nice and was very supportive. Then Lou yelled to the neighbours.

Cops didn't come but they called back at 10:30 to say they were losed and could I call back in the morning? Needless to say, I didn't go to bed since I had to be at work at 1...Lou sat on the porch and yelled at himself then thankfully fell asleep outside. I left him there. Very Happy

Called the telephone company who were of little help..more interested in sending me emails about their services which didn't explain why I am paying for features which can be bypassed. But I was relentless and kept calling back until I got the answer I wanted...one nice operator identified the service provider of the cellphone. Then I contacted them and told them how they were using the phone...They said they would be making a phone call.

Contacted the police again who filed a very detailed report and explained how to trace the call using a certain code...need to do this several times in order to prove harrassement to a judge. Had I known this before this could have been over by now but of course the phone company didn't mention this.

So an officer has been assigned to my case and has contacted the owner of the cellphone. Do to privacy issues I may never know who it is as they will be the ones investigating and pressing charges..not me. This I expected and funny enough I got a crank call while on the phone with the call centre...she traced it. Lou called and yelled again..I hung up after telling hime he needs therapy. He's calm now and since then.

Call centre said I did the right things...and she wasd glad I was so rational about it. I was very clear on what my expectations were and really just want the calls to stop and the harrasser taken care of and my family safe. I also would like that if someone sends me food at least to send an order of something I like...am allergic to hot peppers and I don't like multigrain pizza! Dancing

I have to laugh or I'll cry but I think now that they're involved things will calm down. The caller is obviously getting careless probably becasue I'm not reacting in a way in which is "fun"..

I'll keep you all posted and thanks for all of your support..it really helps a lot!

Nuccia Thank You
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 12:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am sooo happy to hear that they are more involved Nuccia and that they were actually able to trace the call! Maybe there is finally a light at the end of the tunnel now honey. You are being very strong and handeling everything so well, including trying to keep Lou calm. I will say a lot of prayers for you all --hang in there.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 1:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I only have one thing to say and that is , He is making me mad!!!!!!! Big Furios Debra you said it when you said he deserves to rot in HELL!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 10:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm so glad to hear that things are finally starting to move on this. I hope they throw the book at this bast**d. Afterwards you should sue him for something - mental injury or the like. Make him suffer a bit. What a loser. Think how sad his life must be if he can't amuse himself any other way than this. Jerk! He is nothng but a big playground bully. It makes me angry just thinking about him. He must find you a real threat.

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 2:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Nuccia,

Well your patience is finally paying off isn't it? Just keep that whistle near at hand - you'll deafen the bas**rd yet!

You're doing everything you should....just hang in there.
DON'T , whatever you, do lose your temper with him. Lose it with Lou, or the kids or even the neighbours - but NOT with him. You've got him on the run now. He knows you're winning and he's (poor little runt) jealous of your capabilities and your success! I've been telling you that for a while....he's the 'classic' harasser!

You know my heart is with you on this one - I'm only sorry that I can't be there to physically 'hold you hand' or give you a hug. But just imagine I'm doing it here- OK?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 3:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok, now you're all making me cry..especially you Carole! I'm sooo tired!

He's even gone as far as to start a rumour that I'm having an affair with my boss! I just shrugged it off and thankfully so did my boss but it could hurt his career if it gets out of hand...But all things must end and I'm sure this will too...soon I hope!

love you guys! hug hug

Nuccia
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 4:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nuccia wrote:
Ok, now you're all making me cry..especially you Carole! I'm sooo tired!

He's even gone as far as to start a rumour that I'm having an affair with my boss! I just shrugged it off and thankfully so did my boss but it could hurt his career if it gets out of hand...But all things must end and I'm sure this will too...soon I hope!

love you guys! hug hug

Nuccia



Nuccia - See - something good after all....THAT post made you our 'second' REGULAR!!!!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 4:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whipee! Whose the first???


Never mind..it has to be our Debra...


Nuccia Applause Applause Applause Applause Applause
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 4:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dancing Yay for Nuccia!!!!!!!!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 9:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

God Nuccia, that jerk is really hitting below the belt!!!

My only guess is that this ass**** has the hots for you and is trying to punish you because the feelings are not and will not be returned.

I'll be happy to hear when this [CENSORED] gets his due!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have faith that this will be over soon....

Maybe he doesn't have the hots for me but for my boss? Who knows,,,who cares. These are the acts of very stupid people and I like to think I don't frequent that circle...

Made a big joke of it this morning in front of HR and the Store Manager in the middle of a serious meeting..it really broke the ice. Because I'm not taking anything seriously (at least not seriously enough to let it affect my work)..I even asked them not to remove my phone number off the bathroom stall in the mens washroom as I don't get paid enough and never know when I might need some extra money...(theres no number..its just a joke). The answer I got... they agreed to give me an early monetary review since I do so much and am obviously underpaid..Also got my own authorization code (available only to mangers) to approve my own orders...

So see...he's doing me a favour..the idiot!

As my kids would say:

In his face!

Nuccia Very Happy
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 11:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nuccia - See I told you youu'd win in the end...

BTW check out the last joke I posted - it's for you!

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 11:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good for you Nuccia!!! Applause Applause

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